Reply to Could use some advice about a frienship triangle

Forum Index » Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)

Reply to "Could use some advice about a frienship triangle"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous]I don't think it is that uncommon to meet close friends through other friends.  Everyone doesn't always hang out in one big group all the time because at the end of the day the relationships is between two people.  People move away, may start dating and have other interests etc, may add new friends and suddenly Larla becomes closer to Jane because Jane was the person that was there or she could reach to talk about something in that moment.  Maybe they have more in common or Ina particular situation Jane has BTDT and is helping Larla through it.  Who knows.  They don't have to ask your permission and you don't have to be included in every outing.

The only thing in my mind that it could be appropriate to address is if individually one of them has not been a good friend to you as in she never had time for you, is flaky about meeting up, spreads your business/gossips about you etc. To be honest if she isn't being a good friend (imagining pre-wake, what did you feel about the friendship) then I don't know that a conversation would change anything.  You either accept that is how they are or you slowly exit the friendship if that isn't what you want.  I had a friendship like that where I felt I was putting in all the work to maintain it.  I was always doing the inviting to get together and it was rarely the other way. A finally I decided that wasn't  the type of friendship I wanted and stopped always calling/inviting and it fizzled out.[/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics