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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You realize now as an adult that your father's cheating had nothing to do with his relationship with you, right?[/quote]

That is horseshit.[/quote]

Howso?[/quote]

OP - When you destroy your children's home because you can't keep it in your pants, it definitely speaks of disregard for them, at the very least.  That has a lot of bearing on your relationship with them.[/quote]

I don't know. My mom cheated (with me and my sister in tow) and eventually divorced my dad. What she did was wrong, asking me to keep that kind of secret was bad parenting, and having divorced parents has made my adult life inconvenient, but I don't think she has disregard for our relationship. I think she is a morally flawed person. And I think she is selfish in some ways, but I think we are all.

My bigger issue is having never seen a healthy relationship, I have bad relationship habits in my own marriage. Like I impulsively keep secrets about really stupid stuff.[/quote]

You really don't think your mom showed incredible disregard for the impact on you and your sister by bringing you along while she got her back thrown out extramaritally?  [/quote]

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