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[quote=Anonymous]1.  I have a medical issue that contributes to/causes very low libido. Working with a dr on that but to an extent, it sort of is what it is. 
2.  My husband is childish and selfish and pretty much never grew up. I love him but I resent him. He has good qualities but the reasons for not having sedate because of the bad stuff below. 
3.  We both work, I work more hours usually and I bring in 2/3 of the HHI. He keeps back 2/3 of his take home and won't contribute it to the household. I get nothing for myself as a result because bills still have to be covered. I do everything around the house as well. We would live in a hovel if I left it to his standards. I mean "bathroom not cleaned in 5 years" hoarders type situation were it left to him. 
4. He does literally 0% of anything child related unless specifically asked. And even then he is petulant about it. He has no concept of developmentally appropriate behavior so expects our toddler to behave perfectly all the time. He wants to punish him if the kid has a meltdown because he forgot to feed him, for example. 
5. His idea of foreplay is taking off his clothes.

None of the above us anything I witnessed or could foresee during the years we dated. It all kicked in later.

So yeah,  he wonders why I am not eager for him?  See all of the above.

Weirdly it is his position that I am a bad wife and that everything he does is reasonable. He keeps threatening ME with divorce. I don't think my kid is safe with him until he's older, so I do what I need to do.

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