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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My wife is the low libido one. She'll often not feel like it when I try to initiate. She has ruled out morning sex pretty much permanently. She falls asleep on the couch at 9:30 many evenings. So, we routinely go 2-3 weeks without sex.

[b]But, to make it worse, I have this passive aggressive side of me that - when we've gone a long time without sex - makes me want to extend the time we've gone without sex to, I don't know what - "show her," I guess. I don't want to have sex because I'm resentful about not having sex. [/b]

Then we'll have sex again, and it will be all good during that first week - when I'll try and usually fail to have sex again. The resentment resumes at weeks 2 and 3. Fucked up, I know. 
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This was me exactly for a while. My head goes all sorts of fucked up places if I haven't gotten laid in a week.

Can you speak up? Tell her what you want and need? I did recently and things have been much better for a few months now. [/quote]

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