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[quote=Anonymous]Please do not do it publicly.  Respect your birthparents right to privacy.  In some countries it is shameful to place a child for adoption as it can be viewed very differently and to publicly broadcast it even though its probably your best chance of success may cause more harm and pain than good.

Most parents who place for adoption want the best for their kids and make a very difficult and loving choice to try to give them a better life.

Also, please respect your sister's wishes.  If you do this, there is a very good chance you can place her clearance and job and livelihood at risk.  We are adoptive parents in a similar situation.  We have an open adoption and grandparents who are amazing live in a country we were specifically told we cannot travel to.  They can come here but it is a big deal as we have to report it and ask permission (it is granted and fine but there are lots of restrictions on us.  We all work around them happily to have a relationship for all our sakes, not just our child but its a lot of work.  No way would I go public or allow our child.  We'd pay and do it privately.

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