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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You do realize that this was a stupid argument though, which is a good thing, right? Nobody should be going to a hotel or involving kids over laundry loads. I get being annoyed but I'm curious what the root of your arguments are about. Because it sounds like you have a totally salvageable marriage.[/quote] OP here, and I cannot begin to express to all of you how grateful I am that you posted to me. To this particular post and others, you are absolutely correct that laundry per se is not all there is. Yes, there are at least two levels of control at work here. If you asked him what was really going on, he would say that I broke the rule of no cursing even when angry, that by know I should be therapized into knowing better and be able to handle myself in an argument without the f-bomb, and thus, the consequence (of his not sleeping at home, in this case the following evening since it was already nighttime when it happened). [/quote]
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