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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The fact that he used the phrase "consequence" with your child suggests to me that this is some kind of control issue. This is coupled by the fact that as other people pointed out, he is PLANNING to do this tomorrow night. It's deliberate on his part, not an immediate response. He wants to feel that he has the power to make you pay/punish you for your actions. I'm not saying this is your fault, at all, but is it a possible consequence of the situation where you earn the money, and he stays at home? He feels you have control of the finances, so he wants to have control of the finances, and the child? Perhaps its time to reevaluate the situation? [/quote] Quoting myself - my first post should say: I'm not saying this is your fault, at all, but is it a possible consequence of the situation where you earn the money, and he stays at home? He feels you have control of the finances, so he wants to have control of the [b]household (e.g. laundry)[/b], and the child? Perhaps its time to reevaluate the situation? [/quote]
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