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[quote=Anonymous]Another DW who is the messy one, though for me it's also frustrating because I feel that DH wants it cleaner but also doesn't want to be the one to do any work to make that happen, and that I'm supposed to be responsible for everyone's messes, not just my own. But beyond that I think the designated space in the house for his mess is a great idea, or alternatively what we've done is to have a 'clean' room. And one other point I'll make is to just point out he brain difference. Lots of people mention that they can't think in a cluttered house and that it makes them anxious. Personally I'm actually the reverse - I feel anxious in a space that is TOO neat and orderly. A little bit of clutter / verbal noise is actually calming for me. I am the same way aurally with studying / working - I need a bit of noise to focus.[/quote]
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