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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP--&gt;Right now, husband's stance is that he cannot move without a job. So if I move, then we will wait until he can find a job. I do ask the question--&gt; well, what if he can't find a job? Thus my dilemma. I am really quite independent but having a kid is an all-together different scenario. I guess I should also mention that I will potentially be moving to a place where I do not have any friends or family to begin with. [/quote]

I understand why your husband feels strongly about wanting to have a job before he moves but agree with others that it is MUCH easier to find a job if you are local and when you are not currently employed so he is more likely to find a job wherever you move if he moves with you and leaves his current job.

I think if it were me, I would absolutely not move in advance of my husband in your situation because it could be months or even longer before he finds a job where you move to so you may be a single working parent for a long time.[/quote]

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