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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP--&gt;Right now, husband's stance is that he cannot move without a job. So if I move, then we will wait until he can find a job. I do ask the question--&gt; well, what if he can't find a job? Thus my dilemma. I am really quite independent but having a kid is an all-together different scenario. I guess I should also mention that I will potentially be moving to a place where I do not have any friends or family to begin with. [/quote]

Well, your husband's stance is wrong.  I think there must be something else going on here where your husband is willing to be separated from his family.  So...you'll be paying rent/mortgage in the new place (plus the rent for your husband), you'll be paying for daycare for your child and being the sole caregiver, you'll be handling all of the moving by yourself, and your husband will presumably be looking for a new job while working full time?  This is beyond ridiculous.  I would take the higher paying job and refuse to pay for any of husband's expenses.  The writing may be on the wall here, and you need to protect your future and your career.  [/quote]

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