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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I think the only thing you can do is establish strong boundaries to protect yourself. It's really not necessary to be in contact with a woman who is so unstable. You have no way to influence her. You will not be able to make her "see" that what she is doing is wrong. You need to focus on making your time with your child the happiest and most stable it can be. Be courteous at drop-offs and pick-ups or if you have to be at school or sports events together. If you do not already have it, try for a no paramours clause and/or a "right of first refusal" so that your child cannot be left alone with the other woman. These are common elements of custody agreements. They are, perhaps, not highly enforceable, but often negotiating them means that the other parent may choose to leave the child with you rather than the new wife when the bio dad cannot be present. [/quote]
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