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DH husband here.   If your factual statement is concise, then your husband is the one with issues if he cannot love and support you through this.....

I wondered reading it if he is from a very different culture, or if perhaps you are omitting something.

Wishing you healing and grace.[/quote]

I agree with this poster. 100%. [/quote]

Op here - thank you.  I think he loves and supports me at s deep level, but obviously has his own issues around the event to work through.  I personally have a lot to work through too.  Of course I'm omitting a lot - about details around the event, myself, him - not sure if any of those would change your view.  Like, our marriage was suffering before it happened.  Like, he has to come pick me up after it happened.  Like, he had been trying to reach me for two hours while it was happening but I didnt - couldn't - respond to his calls.  He comes from a different cultural background. And I come from a different socio-economic class than most posting on DCUM - though have worked myself up into the one percent so if you met me you would never know that.  Like, my father was an alcoholic and so were my grandfathers on both sides and so drinking is something I have to be careful about and I obviously haven't always been.  Like, I am the sole breadwinner and recently also posted on this forum about my husbands marijuana use.  Like, he is an incredible guy who is liked by all who meet him.  And he's conservative, and I am liberal.  And we clearly have a different world view on the consent when under the influence issue that society seems to be grappling with.  So, yeah, it's complicated and there are lots of things I omitted. [/quote]

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