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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I don't know how to say this strongly enough but your husband's attitude is emotionally abusive. How can you be expected to heal from this horrible, traumatic experience if you are living with someone who judges you and treats you in this way? That is NOT love. It is his job to support you and love you and help you get better and instead he is emotionally beating you up for this. Why are people on this thread making excuses for him? There is absolutely no excuse for his behavior. Please do not tell him about your earlier assault. If you can get him to get therapy, maybe it will help but the bottom line is that YOU need to take care of yourself and heal and he is making that impossible by blaming you and causing you shame. I want to cry. This just makes me so sad. I would not stay with a man like this but you love him so maybe he can be helped. I don't know. Just please get yourself some help and real support. [/quote]
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