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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]First if all, doctors are not the cause of c sections.  Complications during labor and delivery are the cause of c sections. If you have serious complications, you will need a c section. Regardless of if you have a doula, midwife, OB or kangaroo in the room with you.  I had two vaginal deliveries, I have no idea what a c section is like, but I know that deliveries are unpredictable, so don't make it a competition between you and the c section. [/quote]

Sigh, your post doesn't help or answer my question. You had nothing to ofer but you still felt the need to state your opinion. I made it clear I don't want this to be a discussion about the merits of child birth or a debate about why csections happen. Based on what my OB said and her approach she appears more eager to jump to a csection than maybe other docs would. Therefore I am looking for an OB who isnt as eager. This is not a competition, or whatever other ridiculous concept you have of what I'm trying to achieve. If I NEED surgery then I'll get it, and be grateful for the option, however for now I'm trying to protect myself from unessasry surgery. If you can't understand that, please leave.  [/quote]

You're on DCUM, you're gonna get responses you didn't ask for and didn't want. Ignore and move on. [/quote]

I thought it was a nicely stated opinion and valuable.

OP, you can't post on an open forum and dictate the sort of reply you get.  Get over yourself.[/quote]

NP here. I didn't read nicely. It wasn't valuable to the OP who already stated she didn't want an unessasry one, which in turn means she understands there might be a need for a necessary one. OP can post whatever she wants, just like you posted your 'valuable' opinion why can't she post her opinion about an opinion? It sounds pretty hypocritical to dictate to OP that she can't dictate things.[/quote]

She can post away but her argument (wah, you didn't answer my question!) is stupid and makes her sound ridiculous.  Anyone posting about avoiding sections can expect to get push back on their fixation on it, and rightly so.[/quote]

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