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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I was 30 when I got married and was a virgin. My husband also happened to be a virgin, but that wasn't hugely important.

I waited because I didn't want the emotional baggage of having sex (and particularly losing my virginity) and then having the relationship break up. I know myself well enough to know that I couldn't handle it. If my partner could have sex and not get as emotionally involved, I didn't care. I kept my virginity for me, not as some sort of "gift" to give to my spouse.

In hindsight, I also liked that my dating relationships weren't complicated by sex. There were some men that no sex was a dealbreaker, and I respected that, but I also really appreciated the honesty that came with knowing that a person wanted to get together to spend time with me, and not because they were in the mood for sex.

That said, I don't judge others for what they do, nor do I think my approach would make sense for everybody. [/quote]

Tis is gibberish...to me.[/quote]

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