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[quote=Anonymous]Guy here with experience with this. Your DH needs to hear you say "Don't establish your identity around the negative things in your life" AND "Don't define yourself by your successes or failures" Success and failures are open to the interpretation of others, but when you define yourself by who you know you are, then that is when you can CHOOSE to be happy. Successes or failures CANNOT make us happy, ever! In other words, pick up a copy of The Power of Now, read it and model the principles for him. Let him know he is still your man and you are very proud of him because he is no failure. If you do that, you might not only save your husband, but also your marriage. All the best.[/quote]
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