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[quote=Anonymous]Stay in the other bed. It is over. His behavior that will ever change. And since you knew nothing about it until now, he was relying on you never finding out, which also means he entered in to this marriage with fraudulent intent. In fact, he was untruthful to all parties...he is a player. They DO NOT change.

You have every reason to be heartbroken, but he portrayed himself very well as someone he was not. You did nothing wrong.  You were a victim. I'm sorry. I agree with previous posters that it is time to reassess your life, your goals, go to a therapist, find out who your close friends are and start over. He is not worth it- it will be a life time of paranoia and something different than what you expected- and deserve. Do this in a business like fashion....no drama. Call him out to his family, his friends for who he really is, but not in a dramatic way. (We are divorcing and here's why- I was looking forward to being a part of your family,but I cannot.I want  to start my life over w.ith someone that I trust and have a family. This scenario is not acceptable to me or my future. I want to have kids with a man that I fully trust to be my husband that their father. That will never happen now that I understand some things that I did not when we married)

You will have a great life in the future, and I wish you the best of everything, honey.[/quote]

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