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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am new to the area and looking to experiment while being single. I joined a hookup site last weekend and started chatting with this hot guy. He told me the next that he lived about 40 minutes away and could only meet on weekends. I was cool with that. He initially agreed we should be exclusive for health reasons. Then changed his mind saying he wants the option to hook up with others. I said I didn't like the flip flopping and I am for health reasons, I don't want him to fucking everyone under the sun. He said he was willing to do exclusivity then.

I texted Monday evening to ask when to meet and we chatted for like 20 minutes via text. I didn't reach out again but he sent a pic to me on Thursday and tried initiating conversation but I was too busy to respond. I emailed yesterday morning asking if he was still up for this. I told him how I met another guy and I wanted to meet soon so I can make a decision. He seemed pissed and asked if I hooked up with him.

Hours later he drunkenly texts. He tells me how I am asking for too much ( exclusivity) and I'm coming on strong. How he decided this wouldn't work. Now I am a little annoyed because he agreed to exclusivity and I have been pretty low-key with not asking much. I feel like I am being strung along and wasting time because he won't meet me. After a few hours he tells me he wants this but only if there is no exclusivity.

I am a little confused by all this. [b]This was my first attempt at casual and it's not going too well. [/b]What is going on with this dude changing his mind, asking if I fucked anyone else, and then saying I'm coming on too strong. I need outsiders opinions.

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It was very obvious to me that you aren't experienced and that you absolutely need to slow it down if you are in fact intent on finding an exclusive and healthy FWB relationship.[/quote]

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