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[quote=Anonymous]I also have in laws who have very different expectations for our interaction. They don't do anything inherently wrong, but it makes me uncomfortable. I'm not wrong either, though. I've tried hard to both understand their side of things while also not diminishing my own feelings. Introverts NEED downtime to recharge, and without that, I wouldn't be as good a parent. And even extroverts need some downtime too, as my partner tells me! Honestly, as much as your scenario would frustrate me, I'd let it slide this time (since it's after the fact) but be prepared to say no in the future. You dont even need a reason. If MIl says she'll order dinner, just say "oh, no thanks. Another time!" Nuclear family time is valuable too. It might make you feel better to be ready to turn down those impromptu offers in the future, even if you don't always say no. [/quote]
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