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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It's not the nature of female friendships. It's you. For some reason you gravitate towards unstable people. I've never had what you describe happen to me. I met one wacky job in my life and I labeled her nasty Natasha. She revealed herself to be utterly crazy, but she really does not count because she never made it to a deep level....so she was more of one of those types that come in and out. Most people in my life come in and out for no reasons other than the fact that life gets busy, but she got booted out because she was nuts.[/quote]

OP here. You know, I think you have a point. I tend not to weed out people...I just accept and overlook instability...hmmmm....I suppose that has something to do with it! My sister thinks the problem is that I tolerate way way way too much bs from people...but I dont like to whine or take offense easily ...so I accept unstable behavior because I can let it roll off of me...e.g.  upset you're not getting married but I am? Oh I'll have sympathy for you. Upset I got promoted at work and that it couldnt have been based on merit? I'll try to understand why you feel so insecure.  Oh, can't be around me anymore because Im a painful reminder of what you dont have? That's ok, we can just text, I'll be sympathetic to your feelings

I think I need to be more selective...and stop moving so much...:).  [/quote]

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