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[quote=Anonymous]We had our first at 34. Easy pregnancy and beautiful, healthy baby. Having a 2nd has not been so easy. I'm currently waiting for a miscarriage to start. Since I found out the pregnancy isn't viable I've cycled through the should haves in my head: should have gotten married sooner, should have started having kids sooner, should have started trying for a 2nd sooner, all that. But you know what? I could have done all those things and still had regrets...maybe regrets that I didn't travel more, that I got married and had kids young. Who knows. Our lives are a combination of choices and random circumstances, and if you change one choice you change everything. Of course I wish I could have a sibling for my son, but I know if I could rewind time and do things differently I might not have him at all. It sounds like you have gratitude for your family just the way it is; that doesn't mean the "should haves" won't sneak up on you from time to time. Stay strong.[/quote]
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