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[quote=Anonymous]As someone whose parents did this, I think the key (if you don't want to screw up your kids) is to try to find some sort of ground to build an amicable relationship with your spouse. Kids have their own drama and are selfish. If you can keep your issues to yourself, it will help stave off the why didn't you leave ten years ago discussion. If your throwing plates at each other and your home is just unpleasant, just go do it. You aren't doing anyone favors. That said, I really see the reason why people divorce when the kids are grown. Beyond the financial points made above, it seems that relationships oftentimes run their course and that's fine. Also, most kids won't truly understand until they have kids. I know I didn't.[/quote]
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