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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I actually really like my ILs and get along with them well, but  even I have come to the conclusion that there is a difference between "vacation" and "visiting family". We enjoy visiting family and make a point to do so when we can, but we also make sure we have a "nuclear family only" vacation that is just me, DH, and the kids.

You are in a situation with less-than-ideal ILs, so its even more crucial that you make this distinction. It sounds like there are a lot of weird family dynamics between your husband and his parents, and I'm not sure you are going to be able to "solve" that--it will have to be DH recognizing there is an issue and deciding he wants to make a change. In the meantime what you can do is minimize the collateral damage and insist on this distinction between your immediate family vacation and a visit with ILs. If that means less time with the ILs because there's only so many vacation days you guys have from work, then so be it.
Good luck.[/quote]

+1 good post.  Definitely spend time with extended family but it's important to have your own vacation time - just you with your husband & kids.[/quote]

Especially if MI/ILs are odd, cold and unwelcoming.

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