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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]this is 7:30. My DD needs $20K more from her first choice private (NOT a hugely selective school, but a decent private SLAC that does give merit aid) to match the offer from our in-state school, which wants her so much they've given her a merit scholarship, making the tuition pretty much unbeatable, to my mind. We did not apply for any type of aid from the state school. DD says she's planning to go to her first choice SLAC with all her offers (another SLAC gave her $10K more than her first choice, still not enough money....) and ask them whether they can increase her merit aid so she can come can come to their school. BTW, her stats are pretty close to Ivy caliber. I don't think it will work, but it's worth a shot, I guess. She's pretty determined, but I really fear she'll be devastated when she finds out they don't want her enough to give her more $$. How to let her down gently? Or is there any hope? I don't want to mention the schools because she's going to negotiate with them. Maybe when the dust settles....[/quote] Sounds like she'll get a couple of thousand more but not 20K. They aren't going to be able to match the instate tuition/merit money situation. They do want her, but they also need your money. What are you willing/able to pay for her college. Try to get the dream privates closer to that figure rather than use the in-state school's offer as a baseline.[/quote]
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