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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What does it mean to have one's feelings "validated"? You want him to say "you are right to feel this way"? What if you aren't?[/quote] Lol I learned years ago to listen to the first part of the "problem" to see if there really was a problem. If there is, ie it is something concrete that I can offer a solution to, I listen closely to the rest and respond. If not, I tune out, nod and say mmhmm periodically and let her vent. Usually get away with it. Sometimes get caught flatfooted w a direct question though. That can get messy [/quote]
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