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[quote=Anonymous]Whoa, whoa, whoa - I'd back this train up a bit. You had a breakdown for which you admitted yourself and went on meds in the last 6 months, and you're worried about husband's pot smoking? I'm not saying it isn't an issue (I don't know) but all this talk of splitting up is premature, no? You're concerned about the kids, with him, but not really in a place of long-term stability to raise them alone yourself, in the event of a separation, either. As for husband's inappropriate response (and I agree, it was inappropriate) - think of where he is coming from. Therapist knows that they have one parent who has had a mental health crisis recently. And now you've told therapist that the other parent uses illegal drugs? Yeah, I can see where he'd freak out re: potential CPS issues and I'm not even a pot smoker. That said, if I was, I'd quit immediately, knowing what you had told the therapist in case there was potential for some sort of intervention by the authorities.

Unless you or your kids are at imminent risk of harm (which it doesn't sound like you are) I'd let everything cool way, way down, and bring this up again several months from now, when you're much farther out from your breakdown. [/quote]

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