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[b]BOTH sets of grandparents live nearby.  We are in the middle, but are closer, distance-wise to my IL.  Still, about a 40 minutes each way.

It's tough.

One advantage is that I do not have to "host" visiting in laws for overnights or longer.  I couldn't do that, psychologically!

My ILs come to everything (all kids' sports games) and expect to be invited to everything (performances, school events, etc.) but I no longer even convey this information to them.  [/b]

I have to establish clear boundaries with my ILs because they are give an inch/take a mile type.  Seeing them at sporting events every weekend is about all I can take.

My own parents are elderly and in poor health.  One of my parents has Alzheimer's.  Still, the pressure is on for me to  visit/help/support them.

[b]My in laws complain that we don't see them/do things with them often enough.[/b]
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This is almost my exact situation.  We try to see everyone equally and my in-laws complain ALL THE TIME that we don't see them enough.  We see them tons!  My parents are involved but much more laid back.  They let us live our lives and adore spending time with us, but do not demand it.  Guess who we prefer to spend time with?  [/quote]

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