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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]OP, you're making this more of a problem than it needs to be. [b]Careful, or you will feed the drama.[/b]
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+1. Actually, reading OP's post, it is pretty clear that she is manufacturing the drama. OP, you sound very petty and somewhat paranoid.

Go the wedding if your DH wants to go and your family is invited. Act like a grown up. Be polite to everyone and if your MIL insults you, walk away. Easy.[/quote]

OP here.  I agree not to feed the drama - Thanks! MIL never RSVPs to our events, nor do the siblings, so for MIL to act like she is somehow "in charge" and speaks for us is laughable.  In fact, at our wedding, MIL added a bunch of people we didn't know, who never showed up - and DH and I cut people close to us to achieve MILs "goal" (which was to manipulate the situation, just like here).  Which would not have been as much of an issue, had DH and I not planned and paid for our wedding ourselves, in spite of extent circumstances (plural) at the time. Mil is an expert ball buster - not a compliment, BTW.

Manipulating is MILs specialty. So I may not be articulating in the manner you would like, but I would certainly substitute your statement of paranoid for *exhausted*![/quote]

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