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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I want you to consider this. Imagine a pretend scenario where your family never visits. Every, at all. Now, approach your decision this way: what is the amount of time spent, number of visits where doing the right thing outweighs the resentment. This is your decision. OP, you need to feel empowered. You are in the driver's seat. I'm guessing there is a certain amount of visiting you would want to do - maybe include seeing your family with other sightseeing in the area. Do what you can to make these trips joyful for you - that has nothing to do with your family. You get something - else - out of it. The hardest part may be letting go of what you *wish* you had or how you *think* it could be. It is what it is. I'm sorry.[/quote]
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