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[quote=Anonymous]I think you need some marital counseling, OP. Of course your DW needs counseling to deal with her anxiety and codependence, but it sounds like she is not willing to acknowledge that her behavior is maladaptive and is hurting your family. Her father is unreasonable. Her responses to her father are unreasonable for your family. If she is not willing to look at her own issues, at the very least it is reasonable for you to say, "Prioritizing your father over our family is really hurting our relationship and I need to find a way to talk to you productively about it. Can we try counseling together?" You can't fix your wife's family, but you get to have a say in your own.[/quote]
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