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[quote=Anonymous]But staying in a bad marriage is hurting your kids. They are learning what a 'normal' marriage relationship is. So they are being wired that 'love is' fighting or arguments or disinterest or whatever you are modeling.

So let's say there is just a lot of tension between you and DH. When your kids get older, they will meet a great person, but not feel "love" for them because there isn't any tension. They will break up with them and find a person that mirrors what you taught them. They will only feel romantic love with someone that they have tension with.

How would you feel in 20-25 years to see your kids in the same marriage you are in now?

Either go to therapy (with or without him), read a John Gottman book or see if you can go to a Gottman Institute weekend retreat or pull the trigger and get a divorce.

Every person I know that went through a divorce says that going through it was hell, but life on the other side was 1000 times better. You just dont realize how much energy you are wasting with that daily stress. [/quote]

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