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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DD is having s hard time deciding where to go for highschool. Thrilled she got into GDS and Sidwell, not really considering her 3rd choice which she was also admitted to. We are torn and wondering if 3rd choice just may be better---less stress, maybe easier to standout academically.  Do these things matter when college rolls around? I know it's crazy to think of college now, but is it better to come from a big name school like GDS or Sidwell....or to be a big fish in a little pond at a smaller, less prestigious school.[/quote]

I often wish my kids would consider less academically pressured schools, but making teens go to schools they aren't interested in can backfire. Also, if DD is very bright, she may long for like-minded classmates, and she may even get better grades if the classes are challenging and keep her engaged. Have lots of long conversations with your DD about the pros and cons. [/quote]

Agree with PP, your DD has to be comfortable with the choice.  I'd suggest she do a revisit to each and then talk through with you what she thought about each.  If she made a list of what she was looking for in a HS before this process started (or you discussed it at all.. or she's hinted to things she likes/dislikes about current school) refer back to these qualities and have her think about which school best matches.

Good luck[/quote]

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