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Reply to "For the guys you reject, do you tell them what they need to hear?"
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[quote=Anonymous]I will give them honest feedback if I think it is (a) something they can change and be better off, and (b) wouldn't hurt their feelings. or (c) if there's nothing they can do about it, but it's not an inherently bad thing, like them being too young for me or not wanting to be a stepdad or something like that. In your case, OP, I might tell the first guy that I felt we didn't have enough in common. Some women absolutely wouldn't care that a guy doesn't have common references - they'd find it sexy that he was foreign. And he probably can't change, other than just being here in the US longer and hearing more idioms. With the second guy, I think that is something that he could probably change, and that it would be good for ALL his interactions, not just dating, for him to know that. You'd be doing him a real service.[/quote]
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