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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Thanks for the advice. I'm almost 30,  so I have somewhat of an idea of who I am. But I may be interested in guys that are higher than me on the totem pole in terms of career and education. I really admire intelligence and ambition in a guy; but I may not be on an equal wavelength with them. I honestly want to try celibacy and I have before so I know it's possible with the semi high sex drive that I have [/quote]

In what sense do you feel like you're not on an equal wavelength with them? Here's something I realized in my 20s -- those traits I kept looking for in guys over and over again were traits I wanted to cultivate more in myself, and seemed to be looking for men who had them in the hopes they would bring it out in me. Maybe seeking this out so strongly in a guy is a sign you wish you were more ambitious and more intellectual. Perhaps instead of sleeping with random guys, put that energy into being more of the kind of person you admire. Along the way, you might inadvertently find yourself attracting the kind of guy you want.[/quote]

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