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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What do your friends see in you?  Why do your girlfriends and family like you?  THAT's what you have to offer a man.  Search for an intellectual/mental connection.  The physical intimacy will follow in the right relationship.

This is an easy pattern to break.  No sex without commitment.

[b]Your self esteem regarding men is low, so you use your physical attributes more than your emotional and intellectual.  When you sleep with guys too early or appear willing to do so, they aren't valuing you as a potential life partner.  Don't take this personally. Guys just really want sex.  But, the RIGHT guy will want both[/b].[/quote]

Man here. This is probably as close to correct as we'll get here with the limited info provided.

OP, I don't know why you feel as if you don't have anything to offer men, but not even knowing you I'm confident that you're wrong. Not sure if you said how old you were, but sometimes it can take awhile for people to get comfortable enough with [i]themselves[/i] and recognize that they really do have much to offer to a partner.

I won't tell you what to do, but I will tell you that you're unlikely to land the man you're looking for by using sex as a hook.[/quote]

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