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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How old are you?  Read what you wrote.  Does that sound normal to you?  Your relationship and your DH sound completely fucked up.[/quote]

Yeah, this. How long has this been going on? Why do you put up with it?[/quote]

I am 30 and he is 27. We have been together for a long time (10 yrs) and I don't believe in divorce so that's not really an option. I want to have a baby and I really doubt I will meet someone and remarry in time if we are being perfectly honest. I think he needs help but he just won't take it. I think he has anxiety and that's what keeps him from sleeping at night. He really doesn't sleep at all to answer a pp. He works all day and then is up all night. He has huge bags under his eyes and its aging him not to mention it not sleeping and eating properly is making him grumpy a lot. I'm working really hard to get us our own house so we can have a family and a normal life but lately I just feel more like a mother than a wife like I have no partner. Just venting I guess and seeing how someone in a similar situation copes or coped. [/quote]

You cop by insisting that he begin a course of therapy or you divorce.  Do NOT have a child with such a troubled man.  He pretty clearly has an eating disorder.  He's grumpy and rude to your mother.  A house is not going to give you a normal life.  It will give you the same messed-up life you have now, but without your mother around.  [/quote]

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