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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How old are you?  Read what you wrote.  Does that sound normal to you?  Your relationship and your DH sound completely fucked up.[/quote]

Yeah, this. How long has this been going on? Why do you put up with it?[/quote]

I am 30 and he is 27. We have been together for a long time (10 yrs) and I don't believe in divorce so that's not really an option. I want to have a baby and I really doubt I will meet someone and remarry in time if we are being perfectly honest. I think he needs help but he just won't take it. I think he has anxiety and that's what keeps him from sleeping at night. He really doesn't sleep at all to answer a pp. He works all day and then is up all night. He has huge bags under his eyes and its aging him not to mention it not sleeping and eating properly is making him grumpy a lot. I'm working really hard to get us our own house so we can have a family and a normal life but lately I just feel more like a mother than a wife like I have no partner. Just venting I guess and seeing how someone in a similar situation copes or coped. [/quote]

OP, let me get this straight.

When you were 20 years old, you began a relationship with a 17 year old boy (i.e. a minor, still in high school). You are now 30 and your mother lives with you while your husband, essentially, does not. He doesn't sleep with you. He doesn't eat with you. He stays up all night binge eating. He uses drugs recreationally (I would say the same if he was drinking in the middle of the night - I am for legalization of pot).

You "don't believe in divorce" but you do believe in starting a relationship with a child and then are surprised when he continues to act like a child. You want to have a baby with someone who cannot respect basic ground rules and does not seem to participate in your relationship. Are you out of your mind??[/quote]

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