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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm the one everyone thinks is so awful, but I can tell you as a child who grew up with a mother who did this exact same behavior and expected me to be her emotional crutch, it is not right. It is not fair. It is a burden to the child. But go ahead and live in denial. I am wrong, you are right. Go ahead and use your child as the crutch. [/quote] NP here. There is a very big continuum between using your child as a crutch for unresolved grief, and occasionally displaying sadness at the premature loss of a parent. Let's try not to jump to conclusions on an online forum, and project our own experience onto others. [/quote]
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