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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think most are being a bit harsh on the OP who possibly was curious to see if anyone heard. It is hardly unnatural to ask and it doesn't'; sound like was doing it to "gossip" but out of curiously, I find nothing wrong with it. Incidentally I have not heard of it, surely does not mean it did not happen

Always tragic to think of anyone feeling that life is not worth living that that is their only option. Having known a few kids who have battled mental illness to differing degrees, once it takes hold it is very difficult to overcome and battle. I do think the stigma is slowly being lifted, but there is much work to be done, just look at the reaction by some here.

[b]If someone was asking did you hear of the kid from X Univ who died of cancer[/b],, it would not prompt that reaction. People need to chill out and start trying to understand why this happens and not be afraid to have the conversation.[/quote]

I've had cancer and you wouldn't believe the number of people who quizzed me on risk factors in order to figure out why I got it and they are safe. "Do you have a family history? Did you smoke? Were you obese? on and on. People may not do it with a young person because they don't assume these factors, or any factors, contribute but that is not the same with suicide. So a student with cancer is just not a good analogy.

Plus I've never seen a post "a cancer death at [wherever].[b] Precisely because people aren't as intent on figuring out why, so they can feel safe.[/quote][/b]

Well clearly you cannot compare the speculation factor on something as mysterious as suicide over for the most part a predetermined propensity to developing a cancer cell. Just by its very nature, suicide will ALWAYS evoke immense speculation and why's. OP was asking a simple question if anyone had heard and this is what communities do, they talk about (hopefully in a sensitive fashion). The more it is talked about and tried to be understood hopefully the stigma is start to be unveiled.

It is my opinion that mental illness needs to be seen as any other illness is- no fault of the person who has it.[/quote]

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