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[quote=Anonymous]Nothing you can do, OP. She was wrong to vent to your DH. But here's the thing-- do you do the kid stuff for her? Or do you do it for your husband, or for the sake of your own relationship with the kids? It's telling that you want to let "her" be responsible for the kids, rather than letting "them"-- i.e. her and your DH-- be responsible. If you want to do less, work that out with your DH in a way that he is still pulling his weight, not letting what you no longer do fall on her shoulders. You wanted to marry your DH, and helping with the kids was the price you paid for doing so. So get over the idea that you do this as a favor to her and that she owes you anything for it. You probably irritate her in a lot of ways too. [/quote]
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