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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yes, my DH tells me I'm selfish, only a part-time (or absentee) mom because I work outside the home, unsupportive, "psycho" when I went through post-partum depression, and "think I'm still in my 20's" when I try to get a date night to repair our broken marriage. Bitch, c&nt, and "f@ck you" roll off my back compared to the others.  I'm no perfect wife by any means, but I really hate the name-calling and cheap shots. Like others have said, he seems to think it's ok because it's during a "fight."  He also justifies by saying it's in response to me insulting him, but to him, asking him to pick up his socks is an insult since it implies he does nothing around the house.  I used to cry over our fights, now I don't. I just don't care what he thinks any more. We almost divorced many times. He has threatened to fight me for custody "tooth and nail" and make sure everyone knows what a bad mom I am and that I saw a therapist for depression. I know I'm a good parent and I did the right thing, but his reputation makes him believable. He is a good dad, just not a good partner for me. He has recently started anti-depressants for a semi-related condition and it has helped. I'm just not sure though if this is a long-term solution or whether I can get back to how I felt before all this. FWIW- you would be shocked to hear this if you were one of our friends. No one would ever guess and I have no one to tell. I've grown to love his family like my own and can't imagine losing them in a divorce, but I know they would be hurt if I divorced him. Whew. Didn't know it would go on so long...[/quote]
I'm sorry you have to go through that PP.
Just in case you ever decide to leave him, take pictures of his prescriptions. Only because of his (disgusting) threats towards you.[/quote]

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