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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, set the boundaries, ok, barricades now!

Don safety gear and a helmet.  Tell your bf that you find this mothering so emasculating and unattractive.

Do not go further into this relationship until this issue is talked about and resolved.

Don't get involved with his mother.  At all.  Do not become friends on FB, don't call her, don't ask her for advice, don't establish a relationship with her.  Keep her on the fringes.

Is he the oldest or only son, OP?

I have even more to say, but truly I've learned there's something so weird and interconnected with a mom and oldest or only son.  Married one.[/quote]

Sorry but this is horrible advice.  OP- do you really want to spend years trying to change this guy?  Here's a newsflash- he WON'T change.  Not quickly anyway.  And you're 27 and probably thinking about long term commitment and children....

OP- this will be a life-long dynamic.  If you're not up for it, break it off.  He is who he is.  His mom is who she is.  You are who you are.  If it isn't a good fit, end it.[/quote]

Agreed. For the upper most PP that is a terrible dynamic. Keep someone on the fringes? That may work for you, but not healthy for your husband and not fair to his family. [/quote]

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