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[quote=Anonymous]OP, there are a couple of issues here:

1.) her favorite died

2.) she rejects you, possibly.  if she does, she denies it

3.) she does not reject you, she is just not the warm and fuzzy type.

You can't fix the first one, nor replace him.  What's done is done.  I'm sure you miss him, she probably misses him more than you.  Can you stand to talk about it with her?  If not, don't.  If yes, then try to be supportive and share in the good times.

If two, then again, you can't change her.  You can do your best for your own sake and move on.  There is nothing else to do about it.

If three, again, she is not going to change.  this is your best gift to yourself, to realize this.  you are never going to get what you need from her.  do you have other relatives or friends to take the place of that aspect of your relationship?  if it is done in a healthy way, there is nothing wrong with it.

No one can be everyone, even if they are supposed to be.  In this case, your mother should step up, but doesn't.  Either call her and don't go on about it; or don't call her and don't go on about it.  Those are your choices.

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