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[quote=Anonymous]We put strict limits on video games because of this kind of behavior. My DS8 has ADHD. A couple of observations OP:

1. Kicking the wall is impulsive behavior and it's shockingly easy to put a hole through drywall.

2. I have noticed that my DS's executive functioning temporarily decreases if he's had too much screen time. He doesn't listen well, is irritable, etc.

3. Video games that encourage adrenaline (a lot of chasing, destruction, etc.)  are the worst for my son and are banned in our house.

4. When my DS is "one" with the computer-- I transition him off gradually. I think for some kids (especially ADHD in our case) it's important that they find their own natural stopping place and gradual transitions make it easier

For us, we pull back on computer time- it's a loss my son takes seriously, and it's logical for this kind of behavior.

I'm not suggesting ADHD or therapy for your daughter. Based on what you said, I know it seems like a big deal, but it was a two second serious lapse of judgement common in childhood.

I do think that executive functioning is a wide spectrum and we're all affected at some level. If too much computer is a trigger I would pull back on it. [/quote]

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