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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP:  I had let this go.  What brought it up was my bother's email about the coins, which I had forgotten about, which had been left in a box of other stuff that SIBS didn't want - for four years.  Why out of the blue is he carrying about the coins?  I suspect it was a result of my sister's nagging.  Really, it's just like her, but not like my brother.[/quote]

So why are you mad at your brother in this? He went to bat for you with your sister over the diamond, but ultimately couldn't force her to do it. It doesn't sound like he's wronged you in any way, so I'm not sure what the current offense is.

As for your sister, it's really hard to know how to feel about that without knowing her side of it. From her perspective, there may be something else you got that she felt outweighed the value she was supposed to give you for the diamond, so she may believe everything has been trued up.[/quote]

OP:  I'm not mad at my brother.  I think the coin collection is silly.  I just don't understand why after 4 years it all of a sudden matters.  He has photocopies of the coins, he can get a general idea of what they are worth. My feeling is:  this is really my sister's issue.  Her MO not talking to me is to get my brother to carry her messages.  I don't think the coins are an issue for anyone, so it's just so e sort of other agenda, but my brother wouldn't pick up on that and my sister wouldn't be honest as to why after all this time the coins are a big del.  I have no problem with giving each twice the money of what thy think the coins are worth.  The coins aren't really about the coins IMO.[/quote]

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