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Reply to "What is "slut shaming" and why is it wrong?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Girls who engage in unhealthy sexual behavior have usually been subject to dysfunctional home environments, sexual or physical abuse, or other inappropriate and harmful behavior like bullying. Many girls, especially those who are really young, like 12-13, are forced into sex by older boyfriends and while they themselves may not classify it as rape, they often say it was unwanted. These are often very, very troubled young women. To slut shame them is to pile even more on them. It never helps. [/quote] I agree. But to speak of this type of teen sex as "nothing shameful," "consensual," "beautiful," and other absurd adjectives used here is equally harmful. These kids need help. Sometimes calling their behavior out for what it is can be a first step.[/quote] Calling out their behavior by other kids and/or their parents is "not" a good first step. That's social shaming any way you cut it. [/quote]
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