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It's a reflection of people's feeling that the pie is shrinking, and if your child doesn't have the right credentials, your child won't get a piece.[/quote]

But, it's society's perception of how much of that pie is enough issue.  It's not enough these days, especially in this area, to live in a modest home, drive a modest car, don't take flying vacations and not own a table/smart phone/2 or 3 flat screens.    It's the "keeping up with Joneses" mentality that makes people feel this way.[/quote]

Except that the pie actually is shrinking. A lot of people who used to be securely in the middle class (in their modest homes, with their modest cars) are holding on by the fingernails, or have fallen out of it altogether. Understandably, people don't want that insecurity for their children.[/quote][/quote]

There is some of that.  But, for the most part, parents who are obsessed with Ivies are about status/prestige, and making sure their kid will be financially secure.  Don't get me wrong.  I want my kids to be financially secure, too.  But, I don't think going to an Ivy is the only way to secure it. You can go to a non Ivy school and still land a great job that pays well (or even go to a trade school and do well). You can also go to an Ivy, be up to your eyeballs in student loans, and not be able to afford a lifestyle in the 10/20 yrs that you thought you bought with that Ivy degree.

Ultimately, it's how hard you work -  whether in Es/MS/HS to get into the Ivy, or in a non-Ivy college and in your job, you can still find financial success.[/quote]

I hope to god you don't think going to an ivy insures financial success.  I know many many ivy grads who don't make that much money.  After that first job, you are kinda grouped all together unless you go to an investment bank.  Hell, even then, they recruit at non-ivies.  I think if you really need financial security for your kid have them go ivy for law or grad school.[/quote]

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