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[quote=Anonymous]This "schedule" obviously isn't set in stone but it's a general idea.

Dh leaves at 6am, home at 530-6. 
2 days a week he swings by earlier and picks up DS and they go to the gym.  2 year old DS goes To the play area while DH works outs for about an hour
One day a week babysitter comes in afternoon while I go to volunteer activity.  Dh Gets home at 630 and relieves babysitter an does dinner/bed time routine.  Dh also gets to relax after as I'm not home til very late.  
He has 1 or 2 other nights where his only "duty" is to help put ds to bed.

Weekends:
Saturday morning we all go to gym together then I run some errands.  After nap do family activity.  Sometimes we have date night, sometimes one of us goes out with a friend.  
Sunday mornings dh and ds go out to breakfast while I go to the gym.  Then dh takes over until nap time.  During his 2 hr nap time, dh and I straighten up. Dh gets most of the afternoon off as well as after ds' bed time to do whatever.

As for cleaning:  kitchen gets cleaned by dh after dinner as I cook.  One day a week I do laundry pretty much all day.  Ds helps.   One day a week I clean bathrooms during nap.  One day a week I Vacuum.  Other days I clean what needs to be cleaned but big cleaning is saved for the weekend.

Dh and I go to bed at 11pm.  Some nights we hang out together. Other nights I'm doing homework for my CE classes since I start a new job in a couple of months[/quote]

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