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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op you should do what is best for the kids[/quote]

This.

And this perspective on figuring out what to do may help you find peace with your choices OP.  You can tell your sister "I care about you and want you to be ok through this and I see that you are struggling.  So I want to support you and the children.  I will testify if you wish but if asked I would tell the truth - which is that I think Jim is a loving and caring father and it's in the best interests of your kids to have an ongoing relationship with their dad.  Because that's what I believe.  I love those kids and want them to be ok, as I know you do of course."

Those kids will need some stable, non-judgmental adults in their world.  People who tell them it's ok to love Mommy AND Daddy and that both parents are good people who love them very much.  You can do that for them and that will be a huge gift in their life.  Hopefully in time your sister could come to see that, but if not at least you can feel ok about how you channelled your support.[/quote]

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