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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think he's trying to start an affair with her. He's comparing you unfavorably to her and suggesting that he's in an unhappy marriage. Which may or may not be true, but that's what he's telling her because that's what guys do when they want to justify an affair to themselves and to the prospective OW. Keep tabs on him, OP. Trouble is brewing. Hopefully she isn't interested.[/quote]

agree.  And if it "got back to you" by a third party at their happy hours, they think so too.

--former OW (unintentional--he dated me under an alias/false identity)[/quote]

LOL @ having to add some BS disclaimer that it was "unintentional".

You knew damn well what you were doing.  Don't play victim home wrecker.[/quote]
Gee I wonder why she felt the need for a disclaimer- even with it your bitter ass still called her a home wrecker. 
It's cool PP, most of us understand that some affair partners actually didn't know what they were involved in.[/quote]

pp here, the opinion of internet idiots doesn't bother me, but thank you. :)  this was before FB and smartphones and in the early days of google and cellphones, so it was a lot easier for him to explain why he wasn't online.

They are still happily married I believe, with a kid or two.  The only thing "wrecked" was me. And since it taught me how to spot liars and cheaters, it may actually have been worth the pain.[/quote]

NP here who similarly was involved with a married man without knowing it.  (In my case he claimed to be separated at first.). Never slept with him, but he wasted my time and played with my heart for a long time.  He's married to someone else now and has twins and had the gall to find me in FB and tell me how much he missed me and wished we could have a baby together.  Looked at his FB profile and it was the perfectly curated portrait of a devoted dad and husband, lots of cross-posts and adoring comments with his wife about their daughters.  I feel awful got his wife because she's going to he blindsided and heartbroken one day.  Some people suck.[/quote]

pp here. Indeed. I agonized for a long time about whether to tell her about the prize she married, then I found out she was pregnant. I really had to believe in karma for a few years there to handle it all. now, over 10 years out, I am more ok with the idea that she may never know. [/quote]

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